The Joy of Connections by Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer

Author:Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer [Westheimer, Ruth K.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Harmony/Rodale
Published: 2024-09-03T00:00:00+00:00

Forgo One-Night Stands

I have long campaigned against having sex on the first date. This is even more important advice if you’re lonely. Some people use the dating scene looking only for physical contact. Once they get what they want, they move on. Casual sex may feel very good in the moment, but afterward, you might feel even lonelier than before.

Sex is emotional. When you’re intimate, it’s common to envision a future with the other person. But if it turns out that sex was the only thing that brought your partner to the bedroom, you’re going to feel worse because your hopes of a more significant relationship have been dashed. You’re better off avoiding such situations in the first place and making it a point not to have sex too quickly.

And while love at first sight does exist, more often than not, people need time to assess each other. Someone could seem very nice at first but have a hidden and horrible temper. It’s always better to wait and gather more information. Assuming the relationship builds, there’ll be plenty of time to have great sex. Until then, I want you to take your time and protect your heart.

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